Thanks Mel yeah I didnt let it bother me actually. A few weeks ago i would have let it bother me. But not know.

I actually feel sorry for our mum's generation for those having babies 20-30yrs + ago because times have soooooo changed!!!!

We can be so empowered these days. I just wish they'd 'believe' in me like I believe in myself you know? I believe I can labour without drugs if that's what i want to do (even though yes I will take drugs if i feel i really need them im not against them)
and I want other people to believe in my ability to do it also!!!

I guess i just expected more support from family members? but i forgive them for being mis informed