I'm completely prepared for the fact that I may need to use drugs and if I do, then I will. It will be no big deal but I am going in with the mindset that i can try to labour as long as possible without needing anything and I think thats the best mind set to have
The whole point of this thread was that I'm tired of being told by others "oh take ALL the drugs you need cos labour and birth is the most horrific thing in the world"
I know its gonna hurt but I just want to hear more positive things about it you know? Just cos someone else couldnt cope with the pain doesnt mean i wont be able to.
In terms of how babies cry, I was only generalising about what my family members were implying to me yesterday iykwim?! Yes some babies are more unsettled than others and some hardly cry. It all depends huh.