Exactly! That's why i haven't really discussed my plans and intentions with anyone unless they ask me!

On Sunday, when they all said take the drugs i just said "yep i'll see how i go first and see if i need them or not but I'm open to taking drugs if need be" (which is the truth)

Same with the baby hammock we have and intend to use in the first few months I said "we'll see how it goes and hopefully it works well and baby sleeps really well in it and if not we'll try the cot"