Sunshine - thats terrible what your FIL said to you!! Well that reminds me what mine said to me!!

I was only about 10 wks pg at the time and we were at the inlaws place i was sitting talking with my MIL about her labour and birth and how painful it all was etc and just general talking you know and my FIL walked past us and said to me "you'll end up having a c.section" and then he continued walking outside to get something. I was like thinking "WTF??" had noooo idea why he said that to me.
When he came back in the house i said to him "what did you mean by that?" and he said "well you won't be able to put up with the pain" and I was flabbergasted!!! Shocked!! Speechless (and I am never speechless!) didn't know what prompted him to say that!!!! I was quite offended but just let it go like water off a ducks back but i've never forgotten it!!
Theres just no need for such negatism especially from a family member who should be supporting me huh!?!

So if I DO end up with the natural drug free labour/birth i so badly want, and want for myself and baby only, then I will be looking forward to saying to him "and guess what? Did it all naturally" blah blah just to rub it in his face LOL haha