Ren, I know exactly how you feel! I wrote a similar post the other day. And what's with thinking that just because your mother had some type of birth yours will be exactly the same??? My mum had c-sections so apparently I will have to too!! wtf?

I have already been told control crying is the only way to go and I'm silly and will have a spoilt baby if I don't do it.

And what's really bugging me at the moment is people always having to make you feel like you don't know anything and you haven't experienced anything yet. I know it's a natural thing to say but it's really bugging me whenever ppl ask something about the pregnancy for example like 'is the baby kicking lots?' and I say 'yeah heaps', all the time the response is always 'oh well wait til you get further along and this happens etc...' Whatever I say... if it's that it's hard to sleep 'Oh wait til you're even bigger' or I'm tired... 'you don't know what tired is until the baby gets here'.
Why can't they just say 'oh that's nice' or 'what's that like' or whatever. lol, I don't know if I'm just being cranky but this is really annoying me right now. I would just like to enjoy the moment please!!

Overall I'm just sick of advice already and I know it's only just started!!! ahh...