:yeahthat: And it's also not just a matter of the IVF clinics not allowing gender selection, it's illegal, and for good reasons. That's not to say that people don't have legitimate non-medical reasons for wanting a specific gender, of course.

I've been following your thread and can't imagine how much of an emotional rollercoaster it must have been for you over the past few weeks - and it's not over yet! Sending you lots of and will be thinking of you.

I wouldn't begin to try and imagine what GD is like, but I think GD can be underestimated - because, as BG said, everyone expects you to be happy that you have a "healthy baby." I really hope you are having a girl, and also hope that you can find some space to grieve if you're not.

All the best.