Tiff

I'm not even pregnant and have already discussed with DH whether we'd be finding out the sex, and if he said no then i'd find out without him there. You can't stop one person from not wanting something, so if he doesn't want to find out that's fine but he shouldn't stop you from finding out. I'd be making another u/s appt and going by myself. But that's just me you have to be happy with what you choose.

it's a tough position to be in and hopefully you can get what you want. Maybe compare it to something he values. I find that works with my DH, because if you compare it to something they understand they are more likely to agree to things.

again take care