Oh darl

I am so sorry that your DH is being so disrepectful to you and your wishes.... i think it's fair enough for you to find out the sex of your baby, fine if he doesnt want to know but why should you not be allowed to find out just because he doesnt want to know.

As for the not being ALLOWED to have a Epi , i dont think he has any right in telling you what you can and cant have during labour ...... they have no idea what our bodies go through to birth our gorgeous bubba's.

Wishing you all the best xo