HUGS - sounds like the Obs I saw in WA when I was trying to fall pregnant. I got all of the above - i was devestated and felt like it was MY fault we couldnt fall preggers and I had let my hubby down...
you know what - 2 weeks later I fell pregnant! HA! Take that!!!

Now @ nearly 27 weeks I have not had any problems! (touch wood)
HUGS and chin up - you are not alone!!!