the comments never end... and if you do get a boy and then decide on no more people will say.. Well you got your boy now you can stop.. I feel so bad for my boys when people say those comments..
You know, that's exactly right.

A couple of times this year someone has asked me how many kids I have and I've said "five" and they've said, "How wonderful! How lovely for you!" and that has been just such a lovely change.

I think if I didn't feel so stupid or irresponsible in myself (this was totally unplanned and not a very good move for me in many ways) I probably wouldn't be worrying so much what everyone else thinks. Dd5 was a delightful "oops" and I just feel like at my age, I should be beyond that, you know? It's like that line out of the Importance of Being Earnest: once is an accident, twice looks like carelessness. Or something like that.