People's reaction to The Announcement - Suggestions?

[Rouge]

Another comment I've heard is "We'll stop when we get one we like" That shuts people up too And then you can laugh and say well why do you think we haven't stopped? Why did you stop?! And then they'll look silly!

[Shanti]

Congratulations on expecting your #6 ! That's so special and another important little person to be added to your family! that's so exciting! You must be a wonderful Mummy.

Just ignore people's rude comments..... it's so easy for people to be negative, especially these days unfortunately. They are either jealous, misinformed or very UNHAPPY people

Enjoy your pregnancy!

ps I'm looking forward to having a nice sized family also, probably 4 kidlets

[Pretty Butterfly]

I have not long gone through exactly this!! #6 on the way here too!!

When we announced, we also said how happy we were and that we were very excited. No one can really say anything nasty if your so excited!!

We were asked if we had a tele, and DH would say, "yep, a nice big one, but I prefer to have sex with Jodie than watch t.v!!"

Good luck, and just know that WE are all very happy for you babe!!!

[Aphrael]

Congratulations.

Going to have to remember this one - 'We are hoping to finally get one we like' LOL I love it!!!!!!

I'm cooking #3 atm and would love a big family so I really dont care about other ppl and what they say........What Purplemamma said sounds good tho

Cheers,

Beck

[Heaven]

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I really don't understand people, what on earth has it got to do with them how many kids you have? Not like they'll have to look after them!!

[StephV]

Congratulations!

I would go with something like at least my partner and I love each other enough to still have sex. Just think it wasn't that long ago when only have 2 children was "weird"

[squidipa]

Congratulations. I was fearing telling ppl i was having number 4 will problems i the past in pregnancy and all. I had a gyno tell me just after number 2 if i had any more i would die. But I have asked other drs and they have all said that there is no reason why i would die. I have 4 kids now and i come from a family of 5 but i honestly dont feel like my family is complete till i each 5 at least. yeah pregnancy plays havoc with my body. Its full on round the house but there is also so much love.

I think when you come from a big family you love everything about that BIGNESS and you want the same. Thats just my opinion as to why i don't feel like i have enough kids. Its very difficult to put into words to explain but i juts feel like 5 has to be my minimum.

[Lulu]

CONGRATULATIONS!!

*sigh, I'd love 6 kids..

But anyway, I'd be saying "yep, fingers crossed for TWINS!!"

[mbear]

yep, a nice big one, but I prefer to have sex with Jodie than watch t.v!!"

...my god, that is soooo funny.

We have 3 girls, seriously considering going for #4 ATM, i get the 'going to go again for a boy'? ???grrr so over it. When people do ask me this though, i simply say 'you know what, i would love 4 girls, im one of 4 girls, i know girls, i love girls, nah, i think i would prefer a girl' - that totally throws them. Love it.

[babidevil]

Congrats on your pregnancy!

Im pregnant with my 4th child and when I told my family I got the reaction I expected....not a good one! So I didnt speak to them for 3 weeks until my mother rang me crying saying she misses me etc and that even though she doesnt agree with things i do she will always love me.

Here is a little of my story, Im going through my second divorce but my family still love me ex husband and thing i should get back with him even though we fight all the time and didnt get along, im with someone else who they wont accept cause its not cameron (my ex) and because ive only been with barry for less than 5 months and Im nearly 10 weeks pregnant with his child (wasnt planned) im now the black sheep of the family who keeps stuffing everything up blah blah. im 33, im paying off a mortgage, i have 3 gorgeous girls who are bright, well looked after (maybe a bit too much with computers and phones etc) but they never go without, my family still treat me like im a child that knows nothing, they dont understand that now i need my family more than ever as ive been diagnosed with severe prenatal depression, so i said to myself fine, if they want to act this way then they are more of a little child than they claim me to be.

Moral of the story is, its your life, you answer to nobody. As long as your happy and your children are happy then thats the main thing. People will say negative things but thats probably because they are jealous!

(((BIG HUGS TO YOU)))

[satya]

Congrats.

I don't envy your position. I reckon you are going to get lots of comments about you having enough kids already and also lots about trying for a boy. You could also get comments about your age as it seems there are lots of people out there who don't think you should have kids over the age of 35.

It's not easy to deal with negative comments about your pregnancy. The worst I got was from a woman telling me how brave I was giving birth at my age (I was 42 when I gave birth but was still pregnant when she said it). I still don't know what she meant by it and I couldn't think of anything to say back so just walked off. Until she realised how old I was she'd been all positive about it.

Now that we have a boy and my DF has a girl everyone is presuming that there will be no more. I'd hate to think what kind of comments we'd get if we did. Before I'd even had him my mother had asked me what kind of contraception I was going to use afterwards ("because you don't want to be having another one"). I found that unbelievable as he was afterall my first child.

I wish people would keep their opinions on how many children any couple should have to themselves.

Best of luck with announcing your pregnancy. Whatever they say don't let it get to you. Remember you don't have to say anything back, you can always just ignore what was said or do what I did and walk off.

[Katiegirl]

Congratulations. I am No. 5 in a family of 6 and I have always loved being from a big family. My younger brother is 7 years after me, and he was definitely an 'oops' and my mother was 41 when he has born (16 years between the eldest and youngest). She now says that having him that much later meant that she continued to do things that younger mums were doing - school tuckshop etc, and she also made a whole new group of friends through women at his school who she still sees now. My mum is now 66 and all my friends thinks she is a total glamour and looks a good 10 years younger (even though she does nothing to help this and thinks she everyone is silly when they compliment her). So I think you should feel proud and it is just rudeness when people make a comment about your pregnancy. As I am from a big family and I have 15 nieces and nephews, I had to constantly put up with people telling me that I was going to have a honeymoon baby. Trust me, it doesn't matter what you do, people will always have something to say.

So if people do say things, just say that you are a delighted (or something) and happy to be adding to your family. It says more about them than it does about you! So congrats and good luck for the remainder of your pregnancy.