*sighs* I have to vent this and this is as good a place as any. Ever since I told mum I was pg she has been telling me what to do and what not to do and blah blah blah! I'm over it! Mum is a full on health fanatic (vegan vegetarian). So, everything I do is wrong. Don't eat this, eat more of that, don't buy anything yet, don't find out the sex...I told her tonight that I'm having my 12wk scan in 2 weeks cos I want the nuchal fold test. Well, that turned out to be a mistake! "Oh no don't get it done, only get the one they're bad and what are you going to do if it shows possible Downs etc." I said well at least I have time to get my head around it! I had 3 with Joshua and he is fine! She hasn't had kids (my bro and I are both adopted) so everything she is telling me is stuff she reads from health courses and natropath courses she does.....IT'S DRIVING ME INSANE! I just feel like crying right now and I don't mean to sound so horrible about my mum. I know she means well but pleaaaaaaaaase it's my body, my baby and I'm not stupid! Thanks for your ears.