Hey Shorty, I'd move out as soon as possible if I didn't like living with my IL's

Only stirring you girl, although now you have some idea as to why I moved out from home at 16.

On the housework front. I think you'll find that your MIL is happy with whatever you do, as long as it is something. Doing nothing is the worse thing that you could possibly do. And I do know that for every little thing that is done, it saves her from doing it. And for that she is very grateful, happy MIL means happy household there. And I don't like visiting when it's not happy there

But, if there is anything I can do to make it smoother for you there let me know. You know I will come and drag you out of the house. We can sit here on our butts and do nothing. No one can go off at us here !!!

Oh yeah BTW, there is no way in hell I'd live with my IL's, your a braver girl than me :hugs: for you