OH MG i dont know what to say! You shouldnt HAVE to tell ANYONE that your pg if you dont want to! And with your family (sorry to say) i wouldnt of told my brother either. I know how much stress you have gone through this pregnancy with your family, and beleive me you ARE doing the right thing.
Pfft to your dad siding with your DH! A phone call would of been nice.
I too feel like i could give birth behind bars. Maybe we can get a cell together???
Hugs to you darl.