My DH would keep it a secret and that would drive me batty! I would spend the next 20 weeks trying to get the info out of him!

Either way you go it's a wonderful thing to finally meet your little person anyway.

I didn't know with DS1 and proudly announced to EVERYONE that I had son. DH and I found out with DS2 (our first together) and it didn't change the awe that I felt when I met our little man for the first. That being said, if our FET is a success next year (sorry! had to pop that in .... we're going to go for it in March next year!) I don't want to know.... which brings me back to my first comment: DH will drive me batty keeping it a secret!!