while my gap is 5 years and 2 months-ish.. i have been worried bout the unknown 2nd time around, i had a pretty great birth (altho still have some questions)
when DD was under 2 the thought of another one scared the pants of me too!
DD is really looking forward to a new bro/sis, i regret in someways of having a big gap.. but then we put it off due to trying to get healthier, interstate move away from family & time to settle.. so in the end its good timing for us.. however it will be nice to have DD at school next year and while she is at school i can give more focused attention to the then 6month old without upseting DD.