I understand that people have strong ideas about it and they either will or they wont do it, but I don't get why people get hung up over other people doing it? It's none of their business and I'd be telling this person to pull their head in and butt the **** out. It's like when DH and I were getting married and his brother told us we couldn't have kids until he owned some land! I was like WTF? I told him that when we have kids is for us to decide, not him. There were a few other choice words thrown in there too. Good thing I didn't take his advice because we'd only have half as many kids as we do now. But he's a real wa.nker though.