We had the opposite, everyone thought we were crazy for not finding out.

Over the last 12 months I've come to realise that no matter what you do someone will have a problem with it "know better" or flat try to ram the opposite of what your doing down your throat as if it's the only way to do something.

If your happy with what your doing ignore them and try not to let it worry you or tell them your doing what's right for you and your partner and is none of their business so butt out.

Totally understand how your feeling