ttcno2,

I dont know where you are coming from (I have 2 girls & many ppl kept saying, OH I bet you wished she was a boy) I didnt & havent this time (although they said at the 12wk scan possibly a boy) But I think the link Caro posted (if it's the one I am thinking of) is a great read, to me being blessed with a life to nurture & love is a gift & nothing will ever beat it boy or girl, I am happy to be having a baby...

But maybe you can change the mould that yoursel;f & your hubby have in your mind, you be the Mum that boys will talk to, I know one of my cousins is really close to his Mum & they talk about his loves & lost loves etc & he is still a rough tuff guy, but he loves his Mum & they have a great relatiosnhip... I believe how you are with them will be the way thew grow up & are with you..

Best wishes, I'm sure boy or girl by the time bubba arrives you will love it very much!!!