Just to add - don't forget you will have daughter-in-laws: I know my MiL wanted my DH to be a girl and we have a really good relationship. Now she has a granddaughter she's less worried about that MiL-DiL relationship (which is to be expected) but there will still be girls in your life somewhere. I also remember one of my best friends growing up, he's still really close to his mum and she got to do all the pink sparkly stuff with him (and no, he's not gay, he just likes pretty sparkly dresses - I am so pleased I was always a few sizes smaller than him!).

And Mother-Daughter relationships often go wrong a lot more than MiL-DiL relationships, because when you get upset with your mum there's no-one to point out the nice things about her!