Anyone had marital issues after LTTTC & pregnancy?

[Mumma&Bubba(s)]

Hi Numa,
Sorry to hear about your marital problems.
After our son was born my husband lost a lot of his libido and wasn't terribly interested in intimacy for a while, whereas I was more "up for it" after the birth! (Go figure). It took some time but he got his drive and desire back, we put it down to hormones (sometimes women are the ones with the problem after a child is born and during pregnancy), apparently it's not rare for it to occur in males too. I know your husband was looking "elsewhere" but a fear of hurting the baby is common too, if anything I think (and hope) things will improve for you after your little one is born as that fear will be no longer an issue. I genuinely hope things work out for your family, communication is the most important aspect of any relationship, as long as you're both open and honest with eachother from now on you should be a very happy bunch
xx