Hi lovely ladies,
Firstly congratulations to you all for making it here, I wish you all a H&H pregnancy and a beautiful baby/s at the end.

As a LTTer who has had a few unsuccessful IVF attempts, I am at my wits end. I saw a clairvoyant recently, she told me that I wouldn't conceive through IVF and I would only ever concieve naturally if I stopped thinking about it and obessing about. That I had essentially brought this on myself with my stressing. (She was pretty brutal). I don't know where to go from here and I know it sounds crazy that I am taking the word of a clairvoyant about what to do next. I think I need some time off anyway to get my head in the right frame of mind, but I don't have much hope for being able to concieve naturally.

So my question is, does thinking positive really make a difference? Did you go into your successful cycle knowing it was going to work? Did you have doubts and negativity? How did you stay positive?

I am really struggling with this, and I know that time will pass and I will be in a better frame of mind, but I am so concerned that my beating myself up is preventing conception. Am I really doing this to myself.

Your thoughts would be much appreciated. Hugs xx