Hi Baby Dreamtime

For me i needed postitve thoughts when i did get pregnant- i have lost two babies in late pregnancy, and they each have their own stories but thats a whole other thread...

With my first pregnancy i was i guess naive and just never imagined anything could go wrong- so i guess iw asnt exaclty positive or negative- but if anything more positive coz i just never imagined anything different.

with my second pregnancy i was PETRIFIED and sooo sure that i wasnt bringing my baby home- i was adament not to buy anything, i didnt get excited i was completely negative- and i lost her at 35 weeks...

Now part if me is always unsure whether my NEGATIVITY caused my loss in a sense- or if i just somehow deep down knew it wasnt going to happen and so was preparing myself.. not really sure. I told myself i had been positive once beofre and i ended up coming crashing down when something went wrong- so this time preparing myself would make it easier some how- well it didnt really- i was still devastated only this time i had the guilt of my nagative thoughts to add to the mix...

With DS pregnancy- i decided i was going to be POSITIVE.. mind you i had ALOT of support from many people on this site, but my mind frame was SOOOOOO much different to my previous pregancy-i bought things, i prepared and i NEVER let the thought enter my mind that he wasnt coming home and well... I now have an adorable baby boy who amazes me every day!!!

So I say- yes, like possums said, i feel i put neg feelings out there with Zahra, and got a very sad result, and with Shane i put out all the positive vibes i could muster- and i got a very positive outcome, but thats not to say it will always happen- coz like i said- my first pregnancy, i was positive and it still didnt work out.

I have also seen a tarot reader when i was TTC the first time- and he said i was stopping myslef from concieving- that i was my biggest hurdle, i saw another lady a few years later who said i would loose a few babies but that i would eventually have a boy and a girl quite close in age.

I think maybe the lady you saw was just trying to scare tactic you out of a negative outlook- but she was pretty harsh about it. I would def look into accupuncture- i had some when i was pregnant- whcih like BG said relaxed me to no end.. also i saw an energy facilitator who took me through meditation which was VERY helpful to my frame of mind...

Good luck and i hope your dream comes true soon
xoxox
SB