Green - I dunno, it all depends. What are you healing from? Mine was an episiotomy + some tearing (from the cut). It healed quickly and stopped 'seeping' after being cauterised, but the scar tissue was tender for a long time and it wasn't totally comfortble to DTD till DS was 7 months old.

I know what you mean grub and saph It's the lot of the LT TTCer, I spose, to make these compromises. I guess you have to try and see the big picture and figure out what is best for your family as a whole.

Oh dear Murph Hope you're coping ok

Hope you can get a new house with nicer neighbours Smithy!

Glad that Jazzy is better Janie

Welcome Boc and congratulations!

I still look at DS sometimes and wonder where he came from - is he really here?
I'm not sure what we'll do with any leftover embies. I'm actually happy for them to go to research or practice - I prefer that to just chucking them out - but DH doesn't want that. Before we had DS we were keen on donating... but now that he's here and he's real, I just don't know if I can do that. It's a tough question!