Wow Kelly, same thing happened to one of the women in my mothers' group. Only they'd taken 5 years to get pregnant the first time, or something like that. It actually didn't hit me too hard because I really didn't want another baby at that time anyway.

Thanks for the update Murph - those bureaucrats sure are keeping you busy! They are real buggers about pre-existing - got my fingers crossed for you guys.

I've found the cluckiness has waxed and waned over time and set in for good when DS was 15 months.