Sushee I also wonder about women having ligations too. DH and I have been discussing what we will do when we decide our family is complete. He has always said that he would go in for the "snip" but just the other day he suggested that I have my tubes done aswell. I'm not at all keen on either of these proceedures as it took us for what seemed like forever to have Sage and I don't want to do anything so "final" iykwim. I just want to leave our bodies just the way they are and leave all options open just incase we decide down the track that we'd like more children. I know that dh only would like 1 more bub but I don't want to agree to that just yet. I know that he wants to have this done as I'm unable to use the pill and I don't like the idea of implants or injections and DH doesn't like the option for him either

Anyway thats a bit off topic too.

Sage has been unwell the past few days. He has a cold and was really unsettled on Friday night(my mums 60th b'day) Anyway he was crying and I was really concerned about him and was feeling rather helpless when mum went off at me and said that if I didn't do something to stop his crying that he'd have a convulsion.WTF??? She said the same thing to me a few weeks ago too.As if I wasn't concerned about MY baby!!!!!! Of course I got upset then.DH was good even though he told me to calm down and not let things get to me. But how am I supposed to ignore that????

We've had a busy weekend.We went to my brothers house in the lower blue mountains yesterday so DH could do some work for him and today we went to the central coast to have a picnic with my sister and her family.
Hope you are all ok.It's been a bit quiet in here but thats understandable with these precious little bundles in our lives. They sure know how to keep thier mummys and daddys very busy.