Hi Nixon..no your message wasn't harsh at all, just the implication of the effect it might have. I hadn't thought of it that way and it helped me to decide against that option (the note). I will give her a call next week and let you know how it goes.

Wow you have only 8 days til count down. I hope it doesn't rush by and you have lots of time to be calm and prepared. Good luck.

KellyD, sorry to hear about your little meltdown, Nixon's right though, it happens to all of us. My first was actually the day I had the pg confirmed, I broke down at my clinic and all the staff thought I had bad news. I think it's just that we let it all build up for so long like Nic said and even when we have good news, we're still expecting it won't last. I don't think you can under estimate the effect of all that injecting, waiting, hoping, crazy messing with your hormones. You're barely out of that and you are expected to deal with all that pregnancy throws at you and you just don't have time to adjust. I think I am too scared to really let go and cry, I really haven't broken down yet, but I know my time will come again...and again. Let it out and I hope you feel better.

BG, in all my posts I was thinking of you and how crook you were sounding but I never mentioned you . i hope you are feeling more comfortable and are getting through the lousy time you've had lately. How was the chiro? wow you sound uncomfortable, I hope you got some relief.

Miss Magpie (so it is a footy connection hey?) In a former life as a Victorian we would have been arch rivals...I was a Bombers girl until Rugby league converted me in my 20's, now I have no time for any code, drugs and rubbish just killed it all for me. go the Dalai Lama I say!But for you I'll say..go the Pies (or the pizzas)!!

have a good weekend everyone. Look forward to celebrating your new milestones next week.x0