No worries Murph - Good luck with it and let us know how you get on. I hope I didn't sound harsh - I wasn't trying to judge how you suggested handling the situation with the note - just trying to give you a different perspective.

Bel - So glad things are progressing for you. You may have to consider names like Rocky or Maggie (million dollar baby) for your little ones because they are both little fighters who won't give up.

Kellyd - I had breakdowns early on and still have breakdowns every now. Had one the night before last in fact. I pushed everything down into a tiny ball of emotion when we were TTC. I just got on and did what had to be done without letting myself feel anything while all of that prodding and poking and injection was going on. Then one day it just layed me out flat. TKO for Nixon. Just let it come when it comes - trust me, it will come again. Worst thing you can do is fight it and try to carry on like everything is ok. Acknowledge the pain, fear, anxiety and then let it go.

Possums - big hugs luv. Hope you are doing good.

Miss Magpie - good luck for Monday - hopefully you'll get another peek at the baby pie. I think the name thing gets harder the closer you get to B-day. I dream about names most nights now.

NicS - How's the Mat leave treating you? Are you bored yet or keeping busy?

BG - Hope the Chiro sorted out your pain.

Mels - hello sweets, belly rubs.

Hi to anyone else I have missed. No other news from me. 8 days and counting.....