Congrats Lil Miss!!! Cant find the birth announcement for the details but im sure you will post when you can.xxx
Smithy~ Your daughter sounds like she is a great mum and you are a great mum,giving her the support she needs.My mum was fabulous when i announced my pregnancy at 18.It really helps having support. My son Connor is already a great big brother.He pokes at my belly,talks to her and has already threatened to steal her and get a place of his own if my husband doesnt stop swearing so much.My son doesnt like swearing..god love him.DH swears all the time....drives me insane! LOL
Lise,Londonmiss,persephone and anyone else i forgot...hoping all is well and that your all having fun shopping for your bubs and watching your baby move about in your tummies.I love it!!
As for me,im feeling really annoyed with DH.I even told him amongst a huge flood of tears yesterday,that i was going to leave.Im not,but because we arent being intimate,i feel really distanced from him and by him.he describes me to people over the phone as "getting fat" which im not.My belly looks like a basketball and im still very thin all over but i worry he finds me unattractive but at the same time,im loving my body for the first time in years! ?
After my sons birth my tummy was a mass of stetchmarks from above my navel and from hip to hip.I also had lots of loose skin which actually took 12 years to tighten to a reasonable appearance.Before the IVF i was actually getting ready to book an appointment for a mini tummy tuck to get rid of the skin.Now that my tummy is stretched,the skin is nice and not creased and i have my top pulled up all the time as im so happy that i look "normal' but now i think he thinks im ugly because i weigh 51 kgs which he has never seen me at. It doesnt help when he makes comments about lack of sex,me getting 'fat' etc.He was telling me tonight,that he thinks i look nice and that he is very happy with me and excited about bub but i just feel like he is lying.I dont know if its hormones/paranoia or what.I dont know.Maybe im being silly.
Anyway i will stop whingeing now.Just had to express my feelings.
Just been and read the weight of LilMiss's baby - if you'll pardon the phrase - **** the bed, no wonder she's been waddling!!! my goodness, that's HUGE!!!!! Can't wait to hear the story once she's back (although at that weight, I hope she gets a bonus week in hospital for recovery!!)
Wantbaby - poor you. I think we're destined to get hormonal and irrational when pregnant, I know I have been super-irritable, and almost looking for fights and seeking offence where none was intended. I hope it passes for you soon, and that you and DH can chat about it. The fat word is banned in our house too, big is the nearest he is permitted to it. xx
Thanks Londonmiss.I feel a little better now that i have spilled my thoughts here in the forum and also eaten some caramello koalas..haha.I'll show him 'FAT". LOL
Welcome ETHAN BOH!!
I sent a congrats via the BA.
WOW 10 pound 12...... BIG OUCH!! Did he come out via the sunroof?? I hope so.
Im so happy for you.You were getting so uncomortable,so he is out now so you can enjoy your precious bundle.
lise we sure did have lots of fun putting everything together and in its place.. well its place for now. Who knows how the room will end up looking. We keep changing our minds on how we want it all the time.
wantbaby#2 hope you can sort things out with DH. Its beautiful though that you are happy with your body, so you should be! And 51kg?? Id be very very happy to be that weight, believe me!
CONGRATULATIONS Lil Miss on the birth of your little boy Ethan! Very good size indeed, well done mummy! Hope you are both doing brilliantly and cant wait to hear all about it!
CONGRATULATIONS LilMiss and Welcome Ethan!!! Wow 10 pounder... OUCH!!! Hope you're recovering well and enjoying your babymoon! Wow our little bundles are a month apart!
Wantbaby... How dare your DH! he thinks 51kg is FAT??? I'll send you a pic of me at the same stage we'll show him what for! And if he doesn't knock it off soon let us know and I'm sure we'll all be happy to come around and belt him round the head with lumps of wood till we knock some sense into him LOL (and for the record, I understand how you feel, the last month or so I was continuously referred to as "hippo" by my DH!)
How are all you other lovely ladies going? Sending you lots of and looking forward to seeing you all on the other side!
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welcome ethan boh
he thinks 51kg is FAT??? I'll send you a pic of me at the same stage we'll show him what for! And if he doesn't knock it off soon let us know and I'm sure we'll all be happy to come around and belt him round the head with lumps of wood till we knock some sense into him LOL (and for the record, I understand how you feel, the last month or so I was continuously referred to as "hippo" by my DH!)
and looking forward to seeing you all on the other side!
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