Enerald star -=-
Sorry I havnt really said hey yet.. But welcome and BIG congrats.. and I have good news for you hun
Ive had 2 mc's and both times it was pretty heavy red red blood and didnt stop for at least a day.. plus there was massive cramping and well.. it was pretty damn convincing both times what was happening.. At the beggining of jelly beans first weeks I had the same sort of spotting your talking about, along with some period like cramping and I immediatly thought it was all over as well.. I think when we have ttc so long and had so many lost angels, we sort of prepare ourselves for the worst and believe it at the first sign of trouble..
Anyway jelly bean is very much alive and getting very big (as you can see from my ticker) Between 4 and 6 weeks i was explained is when the fertilised egg attaches and "burrows" itself into the lining of the uterus.. And extremely often this scrapes off a fair amount of the lining where its stuck itself in there which is what leaves your body in the following few days and is most likely what your seeing.. So if anything this could be the sign of the best news yet for you.. Bub is secureing itself for a long stay
The OB that calmed me explained to me that it was soo common that women would show up in despair between 4-6 weeks for exactly this reason.. at times they were getting through 3-5 women a day scared of the same thing
They called me back in a few weeks in a row after that to be sure as well seeing as Id had such bad luck with my bubs.. so try not to let there concernt to see you again scare you too badly.. its probably because they know its been a rough time for you getting here too and they want to be sure.. But I hope this can help you to relax and not think the worst straight away
I feel for you hun.. Its such a wrying time at the beggining our our darling little ones lives.. But Im confident you'll be where I am in just a few short months
Ky
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