I got this all the time. I still get asked if I am going to have anymore, except its now oh you are not going to have anymore are you.

between Dd and DS1 there is 4 yrs 11 months and between the two boys there is 4 yrs 9 months.
This is just how long it took. My eldest is 12 and the youngest is 2. So now I get oh why did you plan such a big age gap, or oh you planned it well. I reply we didnt plan it that way at all, it just took that long to happen. Some people have to wait longer and try harder... I normally get a oh , yeah my so and so has had to have ivf etc..

Big hugs hun , you're not alone and people will always ask you something .