It doesn't help when women hear from their FS or their OB things like "this baby is very precious, let's not take any chances (on a vag birth)...etc

I've heard a few women tell me this has been said to them. When the "medical professional" is saying either outright or by implication that a caesarean is safer, and women who are long term TTC have such trust in their word because they helped them get pregnant....very hard to argue against that.