Thankyou all, your support is invaluable.
After a full day in bed on Saturday, things seemed better yesterday. Still some cramping but bleeding almost stopped. Today woke up feeling ok and headed to clinic as was due BT anyway.
As soon as I got there, I was hit with excruciating pain. Not cramping, sharp, horrible pain a bit like i have had with kidney stones although much lower. Struggled to toilet to find HEAVY bleeding yet again. Fortunately, got a scan almost immediately.
So, at 5w6d, we have twins again! Both with HBs (96 and 110bpm) and both measuring 6w. NO sign of where bleeding coming from at all although given it has only just started again, may be to early to see SC haematoma. Ovaries are huge with some blood and fluid around them but this would have been there since the IVF EPU and not the source of current horrific pain.
So I am happy and sad today. Great of course that we are still in with a chance but petrified by the not good symptoms which could still indicate bad news to come.
It is very much like my last loss when an initial scan after bleeding looked fine but 1 week later, i had massive, massive bleeding and the babies died. i don't ever seem to actually "lose" them , just something goes on in there to cause bleeding etc to kill them.