Hi Dory and Eliselouise85,

Thank you for your replies, I completely agree with EL85, Dory your response was beautiful and very helpful, thank you. I was 22 weeks and 5 days pregnant with my twin girls when one of the sacks ruptured, I was in hospital for 5 days and went into labour on the morning of the fourth day at 23 weeks and 2 days. I find it very soothing to talk about my loss because I am not alone and I find it comforting to hear other people's advice. This twin pregnancy is a diachorionic diamniotic (I think that is the termonology) twin pregnancy i.e. seperate sacks, seperate placentas, I have been told that this is the safest twin pregnancy to have to fingers crossed.

Because the girls were 23 weeks I had to give birth and register their births, we ended up naming them Mikayla Hope and Gabriella Faith, because at the time eventhough we were very confused as to why God was doing this to us, we still had hope and faith that he would send them back to us one day, which ultimately he has.

I am really trying to enjoy this pregnancy and am very lucky that I have a strong support network around me, as I have a little girl who is turning two next month.
Kx