Ok spoke to my midwife.....heres the situation.....everything is going ok with this baby. Im measuring 33 weeks and hb 144'...........
my ob goes away from the 3rd to the 13th july...and im due the 19th.....and because i have had a csection he wants me to have another one so i would have the baby 3 weeks early on the 1st july.....he would have to give me steriods for her lungs......
If i want to go naturally she said he will not let me go much over 40 weeks...like a day or two. He wont induce me or give me those drugs. And he wont let me labour for long....and any distress and he will csection me anyways. She said in most of the cases it will be likely in the end ill have to have a csection.....
His cover when he is away apparently wont vbac at that hospital if i go into labour and i would have to go to another hospital or ask my ob to ask one of the other obs...
Because i got pnatal before and never held dd straight away and didnt bond with her and my milk had trouble coming in im wanting my body to go into natural labour....but im worried the baby will come while my obs away....
I dont know which way to go...im really in two minds about it........in ways i want to go into labour naturally and experience a vaginal birth or at least try.....other wise will i regret not trying?? But if i did have a csection i could organise my dd...someone to look after dad etc...
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