Reet......oh im so sorry you're having such a hard time...its hard when you loose someone or a pet....hope you feel a bit better soon and have a great scan

Kellbell...i know DD went breach and i had to get on all fours and wriggle...i did it every night for about a week or more...its quiet hard because i was so heavy it was hard being on all fours...and she turned around..

Angelfish/ferrals....you're situation seems so similar to ours.....the ex is always trying to get away with everything and always is dishonest...hubby has always supported his kids and always wanted to, but boy would she put on a performance if she didnt get what she wanted. But then times turned when we had two of them.....she went out of her way to hide her buisness and she wouldnt do her tax returns etc......until she got busted of course, and we eventually dobbed her in. We needed that money just as much as she did. She was also claiming centerlink so she is in heaps of trouble now. and yet again, she started another business from home and is not claiming anything again!!!!! When will she learn. She also doesnt look after the kids, she never buys them anything, they come over with holes in there shoes, old raggy clothes that are unclean, the kids would cry at there b'days etc...she would do the same...OH ill take you to the shops later and buy you something but then she never did. She would buy some presents, the others non....broke our hearts!!!!!!!!!! and at one stage when she was getting a hefty amount with hubby working, we couldnt even afford food sometimes......yet the kids still didnt have anything, she didnt even feed them properly....so i completely understand........we were worried if we dobbed her in we would end up with all the kids full time........some mothers...actually i wouldnt call them mothers...shouldnt be allowed to have kids....especially ours....i know when you have depended children they dont get as much...so once you'res is born let CS know.....maybe you should dob her in, but it just depends on the outcome......