Melody,
I have always been about 55-57kgs...
When I had DD i was down to a very thin & gaunt 48kgs within 6 wks, from lacl of sleep, not looking after myself, but looking after baby...
Eventually my weight crept back on as I began finding time to sleep, rest & eat again...

This being my second & being about 60kgs when I fell preg, I already have gained 10kgs+ as well & almost weigh the same as when I went into labour with DD!

I work with a lady that is taller & preg with first & she is due a month prior to me, noone can tell sjher is preg & she is devastated coz I been in matrernity clothes since 10wks & waddle all the tiome, so everyone notices, I always get told I am big, but I love the afct that i know my baby is growing nicely inside & I am giving it enough goodness & some for myself(?)...

Then last Saturday we had a friend over preg with first & due exact same day as me, she has always been overweight, but 6 months prior to falling preg became a Gym junkie & was super fit & thin, she is now not even showing at all & is worried that something is wrong after she saw me.

You are creating another human being wth someone that you love & no matter how hard anyone else tries they cannot EVER make the same little person that you are growing inside you..
You should be proud that people can see you are preg & recognise the job you are doing is for the healthiness & love of your unborn baby!

Lap it up, coz remarkably once your baby is born & your thin again, you'll miss the smiles, friendliness & acknowledgement from strangers that you get when your preg! So being bigger is better, my friends are so annoyed you can't tell, yet evevryone can with me...

Enjoy your preg coz it'll be over all too soon!!!

Big hugs!