i hear you loud and clear..I actually work in the weight loss industry so the pressure for me not to put on excess weight is huge.

When people say things like "your huge" etc we need to remember that they are not saying it to hurt us, they think they are being nice!! (well most of them are) A lot of things people say to you when you are PG are totally un called for, but they do not know how this makes us feel.

Ladies that are at their healthy weight range tend to put on the higher end of the scale due to the fact the body needs to create stores. For many women that may already be 10-20kg above their healthy weight the weight gain of pregnancy is not evident until later on.

Good Luck!