we've just decided we'll find out...

i was always big on Not Knowing but for some reason that has changed. I'd say probably because of ivf, finding out the sex is at least something we can control iykwim.

DH didn't believe in keeping it for a suprise and wnated to find out. So i had a think about it and i just sort of dawned on me that, yes, i do wnat to know.

I feel completely comfortable with our decision.

But we aren't going to tell anyone, unless they really press us and we won't select a name til after we meet bubs. we'll have a shortlist and then see what suits. we are finding out just for ourselves.

We also don't live near any family so it's not like i have to hide it or whatever. andl like someone else said, i can buy suitable stuff over the next few months.... given i won't be working, i want to spend the money while i still have it.

hope that helps you make your decision! in the end, it's each to their own.
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