We found out with DS because I wanted to know if I got a girl first up (I wanted a girl - got a boy) so I think knowing that helped and prepared me for reality.

We tried to find out with DD but we couldn't until my 36 week scan and my OB told us that she was a girl.

We're not finding out this time incase I don't get the birth that I want, I can still have a surprise at the end of it to make it just a little bit sweeter.