Congratulations Meadsie on your pregnancy - it is just a wonderful and exciting time awaiting the arrival of your baby
My vote is not to find out - I had my first baby a few months ago and it was the most wonderful thing to hold him in my arms and see him for the first time just after being told "its a boy" by my husband (DH was absolutely beaming)
The decision is yours and your DH but I think it is just the most wonderful thing not to know - oh the guessing and theories from family and friends on what you are having is so much fun. The anticipation is just so much fun.
If you are unsure by the time your scan is due - you could always have the scan technician write the sex down and put it in an envelope and you and your DH can leave it unopened or choose to open the envelope somewhere special alone together.
But truly my advice is to wait - it is just the best moment ever in your life IMO.
Best of Luck
Anna
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