WOW, I wish I had you to talk to a week ago. I have a friend who has lost their baby and I see her in playgroup every week. The whole playgroup gives me blunt replys whenever pregnancy is mentioned because they dont want to upset her. Im almost 20 weeks too and it is the most wonderful time with the ultrasound and the baby kicking, how can you not talk about it. The only way I delt with it is by cutting contact with them for awhile. Its hard, but its just too hard to deal with their problems when your homones make your stress even worse. I miscarried before this baby and I had a friend avoid me because her pregnancy worked out. I glad she did because it saved us both being uncomfortable. Just make sure they know you care about their loss. I think the card idea is great. Try to view from both sides of this situation, that helped me.
Im hearing ya. Try to keep talking to positive people in this chat room helps.
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