oh firsttimemummy, take care of you.
like the others have said, so long as it was a one-off i think bubs will be okay. I'm more concerend about you! sounds like your partner needs a sitting down and a good talking to.

like someone else said, being pregnant isn't a free pass to be painful - but he NEEDS to realise that you need love and support and not pettiness. You have a medical reason for going a bit crazy (believe me i've been there too)with all the hormones and changes you are copoing with, what's his?

i'm not sure the "getting back at him'' by hurting yourself policy is the best choice tho hun. sounds like you both need to sit down for a long chat on resolving conflict.

there's not much you can do about either of your behaviours BUT you can choose to learn from it. So maybe it happened for a reason cos once bub arrives, it's a different ball game.

I hope you can sort it and bothfeel you've moved onto a better place in your relationship.