Princesswalkee, now I think is a good time for you to discuss boundaries and rules with your partner. I am 22 and my partner 24 and it took both our sets of parents a couple of months to warm up to the idea of us having a baby, saying we are too young (although im sure in a few yrs they would've had another excuse). We have a sort of opposite situation where my MIL is super nice to the point where my partners neice (partners brothers daughter) is spoilt rotten and we are horrified our child will end up like this in her care ( for example, 1 little whine and she gets icecream before dinner, she is 2 yrs old!!) it is a good idea 2 go thru with your partner and then your MIL some ground rules for the birth, the first few weeks (e.g. Ring if you want to visit, don't just rock up!) and caring for the infant (that is if she wants baby staying at her house occasionally). Otherwise if you leave these topics undiscussed they will arise when you have the baby and are sleep deprived and grumpy! Lol! Good luck hun x