Leesa - a little white lie sounds okay to me! If we go ahead with not telling I might use that.

Just Me - yes I can see it would be very easy to accidently let slip!

Little Mrs - thanks, would be nice to have a little secret. I remember that pressure when I wouldn't spill on our son to be's name!

8 Weeks - good luck

Peanutter -

Heather72 - oh one of my friends has done that with all 4 of her pregnancies! Would be so hard but pretty cool too.

Thanks again everyone, have enjoyed reading all your replies. This time next week we'll know and will hopefully have it figured out as to telling or not. I'm really leaning towards not though!