We found out with ds and had chosen his name even before we knew he was a boy so there was no surprises for anyone. This time around we are gonna find out and do our absolute best not to spill the beans to anyone. Im one of those ppl that loves having surprises for ppl but hate being surprised so there is no way I couldn't find out the sex. We'll see how long it lasts before everybody knows hahah especially if its a girl I dont think I'll be able to contain my excitment