DH and I don't want to know what we're having (#1 for us). We have our 20 week scan later this week. Any tips for how to avoid finding out by accident from medical or reception staff, both at the scan and in the months ahead?
My husband and I were the same. TBH unless they spend a lot of time looking for the genitals I really couldn't tell anyway LOL It's hard to know what your looking at sometimes unless they tell you.

Our place asked us if we were having a surprise or not, and didn't even try to show us because we said we were.