I have two birth partners - DH and SIL. i just recieved a call from BIL who told me they have lost their little one at about 8 weeks. i dont know what to say or do for her she is taking me to all my appointments which are now weekly but i dont want to upset her but i know if someone else takes me she will get upset. I have never known any one to suffer a loss and dont know what im suppost to say or do esspecially with me stll carrying when i have had so many problems it seems a little unfair. please any help what to say or do