Oh, that is such a terrible situation....your poor poor SIL..
you obviously have a good realationship with her as she is driving you to your appointments and has offered to be your birth support. Honestly, the best way to approach it is to offer your friendship and shoulder to her during this time and then, secondly, to extend the offer to her to withdraw from the world and responsibilities for a while, including taking you to appointments and being your birth support.. You have DH, so hopefully one will be enough for you. The next few weeks she should be able to focus on her and her loss - without knowing you or her, and what either of you have had to get through to make it thus far, if possible it maybe nice to be able to focus on her, flowers, cards, calls, such a hard time for her...
good luck for the rest of your pregnancy, I hope it all goes well for you
Last edited by Cee_Cee99; June 21st, 2006 at 10:29 AM.
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