Wow that's a hard one. Why don't you both sleep on it for a week and then see how you both feel.

Not to try and sway you but we found out and I have become so attached to this little boy inside, that I would be disappointed now if it was a girl! I feel like my whole life changed when I found out what he was. However if you have come this far, it may be nice to wait. It's only 12 weeks away.....